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Riley

De Mean Media Machine

Blog From
February 17th, 2010

Far be it from me to criticize someone who likes the spotlight. After all, I love it. Really. All that attention. Everyone focused on me. A full-length mirror isn’t my favorite possession by accident. But, even I know that too much of anything is, well, too much. Over exposure can cheapen to the point of demeaning both the message and the messenger. When you add a hefty dose of disdain to the tone of the overkill, you’ve cooked up a recipe for voter turnoff.

And that’s going on right now with our current President. Mr. Obama is on TV so often he’s starting to look like a rerun of Leave It To Beaver without the interesting parts. And his Press Secretary, Robert Gibbs, is so mocking in his tone and disrespectful of folks he disagrees with that he’s painful to watch. In fact, not watching him is a lot better.

How did this happen? In our age of technology, it’s not surprising that Obama has been on TV more than any other President. But, in just his first 8 months in office, he did three times more TV interviews than his two predecessors combined in the same period. Then there was September’s Saturation Sunday when he did five major TV news shows. And, most days, he’s on CNBC blabbing about everything from soup to nuts.

Obama’s also been on a late-night talk show, the Food Network, ESPN and Comedy Central, all since assuming the Presidency. And, he was on Oprah’s White House Christmas Special, which, because he’s on so much, wasn’t all that special.

Why the non-stop barrage? Obama apparently believes that constant communication as President will carry the day like it did for Candidate Obama. Placating platitudes in place of positive performance. But what really happens is something way different. He’s there so much that he’s not really there at all. The omnipresent ends up blending invisibly into the background. Tuned out. Turned off. Ignored. And no one is placated in that process.

Then there’s that Gibbs guy. The Press Secretary is a senior White House official who speaks for the President. But, Gibbs doesn’t speak so much as scoff. Whenever he’s asked a question he doesn’t want to answer, he belittles, using mean-spiritedness as a substitute for substance. And when the press brings up a person he feels threatened by, he makes fun of him or her.

Take the Sarah Palin incident just last week. Gibbs disparaged her immediately after Obama called for an end to petty politics. Or his attack on Howard Dean in December over the Senate’s version of the healthcare bill. Or slamming Fox for not covering the President enough (he had to be kidding about that one). Or taking the media in general to task for the way they covered the healthcare debate. Or his harangue of the Obama birthers last year. And so on. When did mud wrestling replace professionalism?

Of course, it’s fine to disagree. But, when people resort to ridicule, it’s usually because they don’t have anything worthwhile to say. So, Gibbs should dump the derision. It’s more transparent than Obama’s administration. And one more thing. In being disrespectful of others, Gibbs also disrespects the office, and the man, he represents. Is that really the message the President wants us to get?

See you in the mirror.

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Riley

The Perfect New Year’s Resolution

Blog From
January 6th, 2010

PerfectResolution250.2Think of all the New Year’s resolutions you’ve ever made. Truth be told, weren’t they a gargantuan waste of time? Really H-U-G-E? Why? Take me, for example. Oh, wait. You can’t. I never make New Year’s resolutions because they’re mostly aimed at self-improvement. Since I was improved at birth, there’s no point.

But, Sidney is a good example. Each year, she sits happily in her study, making her list. You know, the kind of stuff everyone writes down. Things like spend more time with our pack, bark less at the neighbors, try not to wolf down the kibble, be more responsive to commands. Yada yada yada. It never works. Oh, it might last for a week or two or maybe even three. But, pretty soon – timber! The mighty resolutions fall and break into tiny little pieces. The end.

Surprisingly enough, this isn’t really a shock to a lot of people. They know resolutions are a bust. So, they skip making any for themselves. But, being human, they just can’t resist wishing things were different so they make resolutions for other humans, or organizations or even countries. I’m sure you’ve heard about them. World peace, clean environment, plenty of food to go around, health for everyone on the planet. Stuff like that. It’s all silliness too, because no amount of scribbling on little pieces of paper will make any of it happen.

So, how about this for the perfect New Year’s resolution? Resolve to stop making them. That’s right. Call it quits. You know you want to. Take a pass on the whole improvement-wishing trip. It’s a dead end. You are who you are. The world is what it is. Get comfortable with it or, if you insist, change something or other. But stop writing because that list became an end in itself a long time ago. It’s nothing more than a substitute for action. Let it go.

What makes the no-resolution resolution so perfect? Two things. First off, since making a resolution is an excuse not to act anyway, what could be better than one that says, “stop resolving”? You can say bye-bye to the guilt of blowing off yet another bunch of stuff you didn’t want to do in the first place. So, resolving to keep the list empty is an instant guilt stopper, which makes a happier you. Second, unlike most resolutions, which are botched within days, stopping is forever. At last, a resolution you can keep. Perfect.

So, just go off and be your old self. Let the world turn. Or, if you really, really want to, go out and improve yourself or your world. But stop writing about it and yammering about it and boring everyone you know with your list of good intentions. We all know where they lead. Either act or inact, but just say no to resolutions.

See you in the mirror.

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Riley

Pet Psychics – Do You Believe?

Blog From
June 24th, 2009

Mom came home the other day talking about pet psychics. You know, humans who parlay with pets through mysterious airwaves. Nicole, the lady who grooms Mom, told her all about the time Nicole took her lab, Jada, to one of those extrasensory people.

I guess Jada had been acting pretty strangely. Like, she was sensing a “presence” only she could detect. It was driving her crazy. Heavy panting. Tossing and turning. Constantly hiding behind Nicole. Fear etched all over the dog.

Four hundred dollars in vet bills later, off to the pet psychic they went. And this is where things get a little, well, squirrely. Nicole didn’t even hint that there was a problem, like the visit was just a lark or something. But, the psychic wasn’t fooled. She communed with Jada for several minutes, all the while writing up a storm. When the pooch palaver ended, the mystery of Jada’s behavior was solved.

Turns out, Jada had been stuck with some bad mojo when visiting a certain place several weeks earlier. It followed the dog home and terrorized her ever since. The psychic prescribed a cure, which Nicole followed to a “t” after she got home that day. And, presto, Jada was her old self. Years later, she still is.

I know this sounds pretty freaky. Especially since the psychic’s explanation included very specific, and correct, details about Jada’s feeling over the matter. Like, only Mom believed there was a problem. Dad thought everything was really fine. That night, after Dad learned all about what went on, he was extra loving to Jada, which she really appreciated.

So, what does all this mean? Can my canine thoughts be “heard” by some humans and put into words for Mom to understand? Chances are, I’ll never know. I don’t think she really wants to hear it from someone else. After all, we’ve been together since I can’t remember when. Naturally, she already reads my thoughts, and she’s very good at it. Of course, I don’t have that many so it’s not a huge deal, but she does nail them.

Plus, she’s probably convinced that what’s running through my head is an endless stream of “feed me”, “feed me more”, “play with me”, “play with me more”, “play with me”. Repetitive stuff like that. I don’t blame her. If I had those thoughts, I wouldn’t want to hear them either. But, my real thoughts, even though they are on a single theme and all about me, are actually different.

“I’m a very lucky dog.”

See you in the mirror.

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